Johnny Carson became a household name when his ground-breaking late-night chat show paved the way for the many late-night shows we know and love today. In my opinion, there has never been a better night-time TV host.
Carson received no less than six Emmy Awards and earned a place in the Television Academy Hall of Fame, as well as being awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1992.
He was all smiles on TV and kept his legion of fans entertained with his characters in the sketches performed on his show. Better monologues, better skits, better interviews – it was the Johnny Carson show, although they called it The Tonight Show. Carson has been credited with influencing many of the successful chat show hosts who followed him, including David Letterman.
But behind the scenes he is reported to have been a very troubled soul, citing his relationship with his mother as the reason for so many of his issues. Carson’s mom is said to have favored his sister, Catherine, over him and his brother, Dick.
Carson’s first wife, Jody Wolcott Carson, revealed details about the TV star’s mother.
“I heard stories that she broke a whole set of dishes on the kitchen wall. She was a real force in the family, the real matriarch,” she said, according to History101.
When Carson’s personal lawyer Henry Bushkin wrote a tell-all book about the American icon, it sent shockwaves around the nation.
There had been a lot of speculation and there were many rumors surrounding Johnny Carson and his persona. When the book was released, a lot of information saw the light of day for the first time.
In a 2013 interview with Inside Edition, about his book “Johnny Carson“, Bushkin said the American icon was not a happy man.
“He would tell you he’s not a happy guy. He would tell you, ‘My personality is basically unhappy,’” he said.
According to Bushkin, Carson refused to attend his mother Ruth’s funeral saying: “The wicked witch is dead.”
Ruth reportedly never acknowledged Carson’s success.
“It constantly got to him. Her, sort of lack of any sort of emotion towards him. And certainly, never giving him the great satisfaction of being the giant star he became,” Bushkin said.
Carson was married four times, marrying his second and third wives the same year his divorces came through.
Johnny Carson and wife Alexis Adams / Getty Images
In a 2017 interview with People Carson is said have joked that:
”My giving advice on marriage is like the captain of the Titanic giving lessons on navigation.”
His son’s tragic death
In 1948, Carson married Jody Wolcott, with whom he had three sons. They would turn out to be his only children.
They divorced in 1963 but tragically his middle son, Richard, died in 1991. Richard lost his life when his car plunged down a steep embankment along a paved service road off a highway in California.
The death of a child is unbearable to any parent, whether it happens when they are young or adults themselves. At the time, Carson displayed a rare moment of emotion on camera in thanking his fans for their “very thoughtful and compassionate” letters concerning the death of his son.
”It meant a very great deal to me,” he said.
According to Bushkin’s book, Carson’s longtime executive producer, Fred De Cordovam, gave him a sign to wrap it up because they were running out of time and Carson became so angry he “banned De Cordova from the floor of “The Tonight Show” set and never permitted him to return.”
Carson was a notorious womanizer and his marriages were plagued with infidelity. He also had a drinking problem and after being caught driving while under the influence, he was given three years probation.
Yet despite his on-camera charisma, Carson was very shy off-camera.
“When I’m in front of an audience, well, it’s a different thing. I’m in control,” he once said.
“There’s Carson the performer, and there’s Carson the private individual, and I can separate the two.”