It’s a sytvation we’ve had for a long time. He knows that I am cheating on him and I know that he is cheating on me. And all of this is normal for us, because we didn’t get married for love, but by the will of our parents. And the whole time we had no commitment to each other, we just live with each other and that’s it.

But a few days ago my husband came home and said he needed to talk about something important. He said he realized he loved me, and he didn’t like me hanging out with other people, and he hadn’t dated other girls in a long time. He suggested to try to be a family. Honestly, I didn’t believe my ears and asked for time to respond.